He knew you were coming over and he left the dirty dishes in the sink and the house messy, hoping you'll show up and clean.. because you're what again?
Except he's sick or incapacitated, you have no business cleaning up a messy space for a grown adult who was comfortable in it.
Because one day, youโll meet someone who genuinely wants peaceโฆ and they wonโt stay long enough to experience the โbad characterโ you keep joking about.
And you wonโt even realize you warned them before they left.
Growth is the real flex. Being peaceful to be around is the real flex. Knowing your flaws and actually working on them instead of announcing them is the real flex.
Not every moment in church is loud.. Sometimes itโs just you.. a pen, a prayer, and God fixing things you havenโt even said out loud yet.
#Akwaibom
If you have the opportunity to go to school, take it.. And if youโre already there, take your studies seriously..
Education gives leverage. More than people like to admit..
And even for those who went but didnโt take it seriously, it hurts seeing jobs or international opportunities that align exactly with what you studied, yet your qualification doesnโt meet the requirement..
Just be careful who speaks for you when youโre not there. Not everyone around you is really rooting for you and I am sure some of you seeing this are gu!lty too..
Sometimes they see the kind of person coming your way and they want that for themselves. Sometimes they just donโt want you to get something good before them.
The painful part is youโll never even know what you missed.