One thing I believe in is not allowing anyones daughter suffer with me. I believe every1 has a choice & if a girl says they don’t want to be with you, you don’t force them. You have to work on yourself so when you get gold, you can decide whatever you also want with your chest!!!
When people exclude you intentionally, stay excluded. When they leave you out of activities, friendship groups, relationships, or group chats, don’t take it as an invitation to try to fit in, they won’t include you. Save yourself the heartache and go where you’re seen and heard.
One thing I've realized is that, you don't need to vent to your friends about everything that you're going through. Sometimes it's okay to just pray about it and move on. Let it be between you and God.
@sj__3x And maturing is also realizing that yes people ain’t easy but you also don’t have to keep trying to grow and try to stay committed to someone who is making it hard for you to be with them.
Maturing is realizing nobody is easy to be with. It’s about who’s willing to stay committed to understanding you and wanting to actually grow with you.
A healthy relationship doesn't happen by chance or accident; you create it with someone willing to do the work with you.
It takes intentional effort, commitment, loyalty, dedication, patience, forgiveness, and communication.
Only two healthy minds can create a healthy space.
I hope you fall in love with someone who genuinely wants you, patiently waits for your messages, understands you even in your madness, talks to you after a fight. The right person sees the mess and moods but still chooses you.
Unemployment hits differently when you’re a man. Family treats you differently. People lose respect for you. Nobody cares about you and what you say. Family is only nice when you have something to offer. Get up every day and fix your life.The world is very cruel to a poor man.