Kenya is a very huge circus!
Caller: I think I am dead
Responder (Police: Why do you think you are dead?
Caller: Moyo ilikuwa inafanya WANTAM! WANTAM! Sahii inafanya TUTAM! TUTAM!โ
Haha!
As a man, after you cross 30, sit down and study the patterns in your family. Look at what distracted, delayed, or derailed the men before you. Look at what destroyed them. Your father, his brothers, your uncles, older cousins etc... is it booze, is it gambling, is it women, is it recklessly siring everywhere, is it poor financial decisions, did they struggle with deep anger issues, domestic terrorists, did they practice witchcraft and all that.
Sit down and study those patterns,, then make intentional decisions to break those cycles. Remember some of these things are normal vices. Look for a recurring or deep recognizable patterns that are plastered all over men in your family. What brought them down. Do you see a pattern? Now that!
As Joshua Selman always says โAs a man, number one thing that will help you live to your potential is knowing what can bring you downโ. And you may not run away from your family tree. Refuse to be a victim of repeated patterns. Because they are there.
Whether you know it or not. Whether you recognize them or you donโt. They exist. They didnโt have the knowledge and resources we now have. Honor your progeny. Break out of them. Be made of Gold.
There's a difference between being stingy and being financially disciplined. Be generous when you can, but don't spend your future trying to impress people who won't be there when times get hard. Protect your finances, invest wisely, and live within your means.
You never realize how much you need a new underwear until you start dating someone. This other gender will come to your life & start giving you stress.๐คฆ๐ฝโโ๏ธ