Rach

All panic no disco

[Rach @bimbimyeon]

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[낮 @natanattda]

bunyi2an Q4:

[Sido @bigsido_]

You lowkey gotta be liked at work if you work in corporate. All that coming in quiet and just doing your work make people weird for some reason

[Rue @ruevaana]

Kita nyambel #SIKAP

[oCEan @kjmdilfest]

me when i slipped "ya kan dikit lagi kiamat" to the wrong people

[Rach @bimbimyeon]

Jujur 2x ditempatin di corporate dan 2x di law firm, lebih cocok di law firm🥲

[Я | 🍉 @mhmmd_jati]

Anak Hukum kalau di law firm/consulting itu revenue centre, sedangkan kalau di corporate itu cost centre. Let that sink in.

[Rach @bimbimyeon]

@nomjjoha Semangat.... jujur mual dengernya

[Rach @bimbimyeon]

Kok bisa ya orang kerja di bagian sales or production.... it looks complicated

[𝐑𝐞𝐧𝐚𝐝 @5I_can]

لما تبدأ تصير هادي مو لانك ارتحت بس لانك فقدت رغبتك في التعبير والكلام

[‏ؘ @haebernasi]

beneran kaya lagi gatau mau dibawa ke mana hidup gw skrg 😅😅😅😅😅😅 so pls jangan nuntut banyak karna gw pun masih bisa jalani hidup skrg udah bersyukur bgt gak negak wipol

[ega @fluoxetan]

gimana ya cara ngejelasin kalau kita tuh emotionally unavailable and easily socially overwhelmed karena sensory issues. gak ada niat gak menghargai atau nganggep orang gak penting. i just genuinely get exhausted from having to reply to chats, answer calls, maintain conversations, or meet up regularly, even when i look active online & free. belum lagi kalau lagi hyperfocused on something.

kadang capek juga sama standar “kalau peduli pasti bales”, “kalau sayang pasti nyempetin”, “kalau gak ngabarin berarti gak penting.” and this isn’t even exclusively about romance. pertemanan juga sering kayak gitu. padahal sama orang tua sendiri aja kadang gue butuh waktu buat bales chat wkwkwk yes im the distant daughter, makanya seringnya ditelpon karena kalau chat lama balesnya.

selama ini kita berusaha masking dan mengikuti standar social availability orang lain, tapi any meaningful relationship we have still can’t magically override our limitations. punya kepedulian sama orang lain gak ujug-ujug bikin social battery gue bertambah.

bahkan sama temen-temen yang gue genuinely enjoy being around, kadang dari awal gue udah bilang, “lagi males ngomong ya” then i just sit there with them, listen to them, watch them do their thing, and genuinely enjoy their company. i want your presence, i just dont always want interaction.
sering juga lagi overwhelmed tapi maksain ketemu orang-orang, malah tiba-tiba nangis karena saat itu kepala gue masih penuh mikirin final project wkwk makanya gabisa dadakan dan harus selalu mentally prepared dulu karena kita jadi gak “hadir” diajak ngomong aja zoning out😹😹😹

and romantic interests somehow feel even more pressuring. once someone starts expecting constant replies, calls, updates, attention, or access to my time, i immediately feel overwhelmed. especially when we’re barely anything yet. you’re not even my husband, why am i already being treated like i owe you constant availability? i really dont like men who act controlling or entitled to my time and attention. you’re still practically a stranger to me. and yes, i can be interested in someone, think he’s a genuinely good guy, and still not be comfortable giving him that much access to me.

interest does not automatically equal access. the moment i feel being demanded, it stresses me out and makes me anxious. merasa bisa mencapai milestone tapi maintainingnya gak tau.
i dont think i would survive lansekap romansa era modern bruh, kayaknya harus hidup di zaman 70an, ngabarin orang pakai surat nyampenya seminggu sekali😹😹😹

[Rach @bimbimyeon]

@nomjjoha But i dont have time for myself these last few months🥲

[Rach @bimbimyeon]

Boro2 show up for my friends, ini showing up for myself aja rasanya kyk mending udahan aja

[Rach @bimbimyeon]

Desperate times call for desperate measures

[Michael Maloney @mike_maloney]

Gentle reminder...

[carla @carlabraga___]

considerando tudo que eu vivi em setembro deus vai ter que me deixar vencer nem que seja por pena tlg