i think that if you cannot afford college pr university and you want to start get started in certain programs like accounting, MIND is a good place to start.
Fortunately I do not know any men who think umbrellas are feminine & dont carry them. Most of the men I know have umbrellas in their cars. My brother, a young adult as well. Not saying what you lot are saying is untrue but I am happy to know the men I associate with are sensible.
as a person who is also extremely busy with their job, i frankly do not like the extremely busy job excuse when it comes to people you care for or establishing a relationship with.