Bisi Ojolo

Wife/Mother/Relationship Coach & Marriage Counsellor/Trauma Healing Expert/Author

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1. What if September is your turning point? 💃💃

Not another month of scrolling and sighing, but a month where you take action towards getting married as a mature single.

My husband and I are not speaking as “experts on a pedestal.”

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Abusé Doesn't Always Start With Beätîng.
Behind Closed Doors (Episode 1)

Everybody admires them, but nobody lives with them to truly understand how they are doing in marriage.

They always look good, but are not feeling good.

The story of abûsé, the silence, the help.

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4. Break that fruitless cycle this morning, join now and prepare differently.

Join here

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[Bisi Ojolo @bisiojolo]

1. What if September is your turning point? 💃💃

Not another month of scrolling and sighing, but a month where you take action towards getting married as a mature single.

My husband and I are not speaking as “experts on a pedestal.”

[Bisi Ojolo @bisiojolo]

3. Every day, for 30 days, we’ll walk you through what it really takes to find love, marry right, and say “I do” without regrets.

Don’t let another year pass with the same cycle.

#bisiojolo #lanrebisiojolo #ReadySetMarry #LoveAtAnyAge #freechallenge
#maturesingle #MatureDating

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The title of the book is READY, SET, MARRY: A NO-NONSENSE GUIDE FOR MATURE SINGLES TO FIND LOVE AND SAY 'I DO'.

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1. Just to remind you that my husband and I wrote a book for mature singles waiting to get married. We understand your pain and the book will soon be released. #bisiojolo

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5. While you wait, don't whine, don't wail, don't waste but love your love unapologetically and serve God passionately and diligently. Anticipate the release of your book.

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@NeonAdejo AMEN.

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3. We commence the Excellent Singles Club on the 5th of July, and the Premarital Training Programme starts on the 4th of July.

The book for mature singles is also coming. Preorders start on the 22nd of July.

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1. Singles, don't start a relationship without attending the Excellent Singles Club. Many challenging situations people face in marriage are avoidable.

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2. Singles in courtship, don't get married without attending our Premarital Training Programme. Many challenging situations people face in marriage are avoidable.

N100,000 admits you and your partner for 9 weeks.

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7. You can also join our 3-day Dïvorce-proof your Relationship and Marriage Masterclass. We will discuss things about sëxual pleasure.

#bisiojolo #bisiojolomentoringacademy #marriedcouple #sexinmarriage

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6. try different styles and positions, and express your feelings to your husband without making him feel inadequate.

If you don't mind, send a message.

Please, let us help our sister.

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5. You need to understand that when it comes to pënïs, it's not always about the SIZE but USAGE.
You need to shift your focus from size to pleasure, have enough foreplay, communicate vulnerably...

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4. ✅ Are there unspoken emotional needs or tensions in your marriage that might be affecting your intimacy?

The truth is that sexual satisfaction is rarely about just one factor, it’s often about connection, vulnerability, communication, and exploration.

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3. However, let me say a few things here:

✅ Have there been any physical changes (e.g., health, medications, hormonal shifts) for either of you that might be playing a role here?

✅ Is he possibly going through stress, anxiety, or life circumstances(work, family, etc.)?

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Dear Anonymous,

I understand how deeply these changes are affecting you and your marriage.

I want you to know that your feelings are completely valid, and it takes courage to acknowledge these challenges.