“I asked ChatGPT” yeah well I asked my autistic friend whose pattern recognition gives her borderline prophetic accuracy even though no one ever listens to her because she’s awkward and has bad timing and says the wrong thing and has no control over her body or volume or brain or
Whoever told me the ADHD hack of putting the directions into GPS and leaving it up while you get ready to watch the arrival time, you are a genius and a lifesaver. Actual game changing ADHD advice
I wonder how much of this has to do with the whole opposites attract thing, and how much has to do with social pressure. My gf is definitely butch- I am not, but i’m not fem either, I’m just kind of there. Unless I’m in makeup I don’t feel like I fit in any of the usual labels.
I had a fascinating discussion with a butch at dyke night about how (IN THEIR EXPERIENCE) a lot of people in the masc4masc dating scene are functionally DL because they view being attracted to femmes as part of their gender and I’m wondering if anyone else has thoughts on this?