I need you to understand. If the relationship only works when you stay silent, suppress your feelings, and avoid setting boundaries, you're not being loved. You're being controlled.
When you in a serious relationship, you’re suppose to move differently. Yeah you grown you can do whatever you want, but certain things are out of respect you have for your partner! It’s not about being controlled or about your partner being insecure it’s a respect thing.
It was barely 3 months to my wedding when i started getting really bad stomach and pelvic pain whenever we are having sex.
We went to the doctors multiple times and was told nothing was wrong with me so he called his mama about it and she asked to speak to me.
She said “darling that’s your gut. Trust your gut”.
I broke up with him a week later.