why would u meet the person you’re gonna marry in a fucked up way? why would your life partner make you beg, cry, chase & second guess. That doesn’t make spiritual sense. Break up. Move on
I highly recommend confronting the idea that you might not get married or have kids or have a “normal” future esp in your mid 20s, it really opens up the world, it makes it very easy to walk away from situations, to know you are above certain circumstances, patriarchal norms etc
i just heard someone on TikTok say “this is the first time in history women are dating men for their character. and that’s why no one is dating.” and she was right.
I need the girls to get DISGUSTED by a man never buying flowers, planning dates, building a bond, investing in & pouring love + effort into a good hearted woman that deserves it. GET DISGUSTED.
Now I understand why they keep telling women to marry before 25. After 25, you start thinking differently. You stop chasing the wedding and start asking if the marriage itself is even worth it.
unfortunately, i don’t like nonchalant men. Be dominant, check on me. Be affectionate. Tell me im gorgeous. Plan dates. Buy me flowers. Be absolutely obsessed with me.