Being with a man who WANTS to be a father>>>>>>> having a supportive and equally excited and present partner during pregnancy is important for baby's imprint and for mom's perinatal/postpartum period. Pregnancy is too risky of a situation to be having babies with loser ass men.
I remember crashing out over a man before. I lost sleep. I lost weight. I lost money. I lost friends. I lost family. I lost hair. I lost ambition. I lost my appetite. I lost my spark. I lost my best years. I lost my mind. That’s why I don’t judge no woman struggling in a toxic relationship because I never thought that could be me until it was. Life will humble you so quick.
If we are dating, I want to be your 2nd priority. I want your 1st priority to be you. Your dreams, your growth, your future. I'll stand beside you, not in your way. I'll push you to be better, not pull you back. Love isn't about losing yourself. It's about finding more of who you're meant to be, TOGETHER.
I wanna marry into a funcional family... when they have cookouts, game nights, holiday dinners and bday parties...I wanna be able to go get breakfast with my mother in law & go shopping with their siblings. I don't want it to be just "US" I want a family that's oriented.