@ZackMeisel the blue road alternate is awesome. red cap at home will take some getting used to (i know they had a red cap with the cream homes a while back but still). but overall, i think these are pretty good.
@needyneen yeah. and to be clear, i think self-care is a good thing! but the concept evolved past what was intended. also, america has always tried to beat the community out of people and instead foster individualism, like it's more virtuous. that's simply not true. people need each other.
@needyneen as ridiculed as it ultimately became, i think that whole "i can't hold appropriate space for you" tweet, and the underlying attitude, was total poison to people's brains. "self-care" becomes an excuse to ignore people and be selfish, and that mentality has to go.