@Bigzaynabu She needs the engagement so badly that she's willing to lead her followers astray to get the engagement. And you all are still following her and playing her stupid dream games...very pathetic
DON’T CONFUSE CURRENT CIRCUMSTANCES WITH FINAL DESTINATION 🔥👏
Anybody can move from zero to a hundred and history, data and human development research support this reality. A person’s current situation is not a permanent measure of their potential. Many widely documented success stories across education, business, sports and science show that people often start with limited resources, poor networks or repeated failures before achieving measurable success.
Economic mobility studies confirm that skills acquisition, education, discipline and access to opportunity over time significantly influence outcomes more than starting position. Psychologists also emphasize neuroplasticity which denotes the brain’s ability to learn, adapt and improve at any age which proves that growth is possible regardless of where someone begins.
Looking only at someone’s present reality ignores unseen effort, learning curves, setbacks and timing. Progress is rarely linear but it is built through consistency, resilience and compounding effort. Judging people by their current stage is inaccurate because circumstances change, knowledge grows and opportunities emerge.
Today’s “zero” can realistically become tomorrow’s “hundred” through sustained, lawful effort and intentional development.
In summary, NO LOOK DOWN ON ANYONE.
Be guided accordingly.
Sex is not the reason why you should cohabit.
Sexual compatibility is.
For those of you that are already sexually active, you have sex whenever you go visit your man.
So stop pretending.
What cohabitation does for you, is that you'll learn how to still value & appreciate each other's presence, even when there is no sex for days.
This is why some of you in relationships, only visit your boyfriends whenever you're not in your period.
Some of you ladies even apologize when your period suddenly comes in your man's house.
And some men even cancel your coming to see them, when you tell them that you're in your period.
All you know is sex sex sex.
But you do not know the importance of sexual compatibility in marriage.
In marriage, sex would bore you if you're not sexually compatible with your spouse.
Would you ask for a divorce because of that?
Even if you're sexually compatible, would you be having sex everyday?
What about other things?
What about character, habits, secrets, anger management, fun, quarrels, fights, sickness etc?
You want to wait until you get married before you start experiencing all that?
Cohabitation is either a win-win or loose-win or loose-loose experience.
It's a deliberate or conscious decision that both of you must make, to be sure of what you're going into.
I recall one time, a young lady came to my DM.
She had thought that she had found the love of her life, until she went to cohabit with him.
Few days in his house, she took ill and was throwing up all the place.
Her boyfriend treated her with disdain, ordered her to wash his bedsheets and clean up his house.
She was shocked that the man she thought loved her, could suddenly behave that way.
That was how the relationship came to an abrupt end and she left his house heartbroken.
Keep your religiousity in your pocket, & do what you have to do, to make sure that you're not inching towards a ditch.
People can hide their character.
And until you start living with them, your eyes may never be opened.
Until it's too late.
End.
@IBEDC_NG Hello ibedc I've sent you a message since yesterday, I bout units but haven't gotten my token I've been debited so its not my bank, you guys are not being professional if you'll nor respond to customers queries. Respond to my message ASAP please I can't keep sleeping in the dark
So many men are trying to force a woman’s attraction to come real quick to them.
Love bombing and forcing conversations and ignoring the quality of the response on the other side is a recipe for sure disaster.
When you take a step, allow her to take a step too. Don’t take 3 steps and before she takes one, you take another. It’s scary. How can you be at 100 in 2 days but she’s not even been given the chance to get to 30?
Calm down bro.