maturing is realizing none of us are easy to be with. It's about who's willing to stay committed to understanding you and actually wants to grow with you
Orang-orang yang udah kerja stop lah looking down mereka yang belum. We don't know what happened, what's on their mind. We only see what we see, kita gak bisa lihat apa yang lagi mereka rasakan dan usahakan. Masih kurang sibuk kah kerjaan sampean ini?
turns out, reading voraciously, moving your body, loving people without keeping score, protecting your solitude, chasing nothing but your own growth, and occasionally staying out too late with people who make you laugh until it hurts is not a bad way to build a life.
ini lah kenapa di umur 20an banyak banget yang mulai hobi baru. jadi rajin nyobain banyak cabor, ikut marathon, daftar kelas yoga/pilates, nyobain free diving, ikut community, kelas masak, pottery dll. karena kalo waktu dihabisin buat kerja doang, our soul will become soulless.
alias there's no spark left in our lives. semakin tua juga semakin banyak 'curiousity' buat nyoba new different things. maybe karena we feel like we're running out of time kali ya if we don't live our life to the fullest.