Men in their 30s or older scrutinizing women about body count is not only unreasonable, but also borders on predatory behavior. It is hypocritical and delusional at best.
Perhaps the reason I truly long for deep connection and at the same time i’m extremely hesitant to allow ppl into my personal space - is because I grew up feeling alone even when surrounded by my own family.
I found a lot of ways to entertain myself, I have a rich inner world.
You be going through some shit and all the sudden your algorithm is all “how to spot a cheat” “top 5 lies men tell” “how to know when your man is talking with another woman”
😑😑😑😑😑😑
Person in their 30’s: I’ve never been in a “real” relationship before.
Me: oh good! You’re saving yourself…
Them: woah! I’m not a virgin!
Me: hey now, you didn’t let me finish 😅 you’re saving yourself a lot of trouble 😇
People say that they hate drama, but then refuse to tell the truth. When will they realize that when you live in integrity there’s a lot less drama in your life.
To have people say “you guys were the perfect couple” after finding out my ex and I broke up after 13 years is hurtful considering how much I had to surpress to keep the relationship afloat.