Blessing

Happiness dwells in peaceful moments ✨

[Blessing @bleceegold]

I feel like my soul record happiness when the word of God birth faith in my heart same way it record attraction when I physically see someone beautiful ☺️

[Blessing @bleceegold]

Every day is a gift,and you really never know what may happen.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

Writing this again for those who missed it initially.

This post might be long but you of an open mind would gain one or two lessons from it.

Sometime ago, I had a long phone conversation with a lady who has for a long time, over a year now, been on my case and moving towards me and wondering why despite how good looking and responsible she is, i have never gone past respectfully seeing her as an acquaintance. She doesn’t understand me and she said so.

In our conversation yesterday, she said in a playful manner that attempted to shroud the seriousness of what she was saying, that she belongs to an astral family (spiritual family if you may) of goodluckers, what yorubas popularly know as EGBE.

She explicitly expressed how this family bring money and opportunities to their loved ones and people their persons marry. She said things would start happening and money will start coming and I wouldn’t know where or how it comes. Little effort, big money.

In case you are wondering, THIS ACTUALLY HAPPENS and is the reason why you see some men rise sharply as soon as they are strongly linked with some women in a union.

But this is not the point of this post. The point is, i was quiet althrough, listening carefully but she did not know that those were information i already KNEW about her all along and even more about her she is yet to know. Of course she sees me as an innocent Medical Doctor and has no idea how deeply spiritual i am. I have always been so simple to her.

When she was through. The Dr. Jekyll part of me receded into the background and Mr. Hyde came out. The Blunt and cold Hyde.

So i pointed out to her:

1. I date and marry you, things start happening and i start making MONEY, lots of it, then days when misunderstandings happen, you are quick to ask me if i would have been this rich if it weren’t for you. This is even if i didn’t also have my own spiritual family and backing (I am not a spiritual orphan lmaoo).

2. You want to point out to me how valuable you are as a person and how much of a perfect partner uou could be to me and you are bringing MATERIAL WEALTH as your pointer to this your fact? Materiality and Money that don’t last? After all those riches and stuff, what else? Things that a single CANCER which anyone could have at anytime or one unexpected RTA would take away in split seconds?

3. I judge people by the QUALITY of their personalities and NOT the size of their pockets or how rich they can make me and QUALITY here goes FAR beyond money, cars, houses, good clothes and iPhones. And honestly if i saw these qualities in you all along, i would have been the one moving towards you. This conversation would not even be necessary.

4. If this is how you judge the quality of your person, through MONEY, does that not also point to the fact that you are just the most INAPPROPRIATE person for me, considering my above definition of QUALITY?

5. If this is how you judge quality, through the eyes of materialism and money, what kind of VALUES particularly would you be impacting into the lives of our children? Cos i wouldn’t be looking to pick a spouse for myself alone but also a perfect MOTHER for my children.

The rest of the conversation is history. The point here is, many men would see that as a perfect spouse. Not many men would look or think deeper. But know that your VALUES determine EVERYTHING around you and determine what you get from life. This is what is meant when it is said that your THINKING shapes your world.

[Blessing @bleceegold]

Sometimes, you just need to roll the dice and see where it lands.

[Blessing @bleceegold]

Happy New Year
2026. Good things will happen.

[Blessing @bleceegold]

@jaassonnnnn @OTAyesa 😆😆

[Blessing @bleceegold]

@Sauce_africaine Lol 😆

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

I see the point you are trying to make but

1. You are an African. Things work differently here. The surname you so strongly keep today and which you apparently tell other women to keep, are ALL MEN’S names. Making it a compound name sounds better (i hope that is what you mean).

2. It literally takes a month to effect changes, even if you are thinking of the legal implications. Court affidavit does it.

3. You did what SUITED YOU and yours. It should not be a blanket advice for everyone. What worked for you could ruin another. People’s realities are different. Saying “I think you should” seems like an overreach.

4. Not everyone will relocate. Not everyone will NEED to relocate.

5. Your bio is remarkably stupid (just a side note and a bonus observation).

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

You will eventually get to that point of maturity where you realize that after all that daily hustle and struggle to accumulate wealth and earthly possessions to live a large lifestyle, all you always NEEDED was a simple and comfortable life, a decent home and family (filled with love)…..and peace of mind.

[Ify @Sauce_africaine]

One of the hardest truths I am coming to terms with.

[Sheila of the Most High @sheilatebra]

MY LOVE LANGUAGE IS ADDING YOU TO MY PRAYERS.

[Blessing @bleceegold]

@Sisi_Yemmie 🤣🤣🤣

[Mr. Possible @Mrpossidez]

Grateful for love. I sometimes forget that i have some of that.

[Big Sis🦄💜✨ @The_Barr_OluT]

I really like smart people. I like fine people too.

Fortunately for me, my husband is both 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹♥️

[Blessing @bleceegold]

@maxvayshia You see that last conclusion part." When you know your values, it determines everything you get in life, and that 's what shapes your thinking." Thanks for sharing.

[Blessing @bleceegold]

Every day is a gift,and you really never know what may happen.

[Maxvayshia™ @maxvayshia]

Stop avoiding messages and calls from your loved ones. Return those calls and check up on them cos they will not be with you forever. One minute they are here, next they are gone and their silence will PAIN you. May we not live our lives in regrets.

[Michael Justus @mhjrad]

There's a new type of diabetes (type 5)

[Blessing @bleceegold]

@Sauce_africaine With speed eh

[Blessing @bleceegold]

@Sauce_africaine Thanks ify

[Blessing @bleceegold]

I am grateful for another year in my life. My God is good and faithful. 21/03.

[Blessing @bleceegold]

@edi_abali Thanks Josh.