@kujakuin it definitely is a lot... i also tend to avoid the community myself since my first time talking to anyone was super rough 💧 they really don't hesitate to bite... it's much better when you have friends though! maybe we could talk about it sometime as beginners?C:
@kujakuin right!! i used to be suuuper intimidated but now that i'm actually getting into it it's honestly kinda funC: i only really know bits about enneagram & cog functions though since i'm a little slow to getting these things 💧
there's this person i know irl and they've been asking me out (once for like... a date) n idk if i should say yes to it or not, i mean i said no the last time but... 💧 they're cool just not sure if they understand what love really means to me
i guess i'm also just really put off considering they seem the type to be um... bordering desperate for a relationship which i can get!! but it's pretty scary when you y'know... fall out of conventionality