The saddest question I've ever asked myself is whether I'm not worthy of love, after giving so much of it without asking for much in return.
(kata org)
setelah itu jadi sadar, kenapa mesti takut with the idea of “getting replaced”? aint that how this life works? sesederhana memahami ya mungkin sampai di situ aja perannya. dan itu ga papa. not everyone means to stay in our life forever.
some people stay, some teach us a lesson.
Dulu aku sering kali mentoleransi banyak hal karena nggak mau kehilangan orang-orang. Sekarang, aku menetapkan batasan karena nggak mau kehilangan diri sendiri (lagi).
there’s a really painful kind of loneliness in being the person who notices everything, understands everyone, gives people grace, and still somehow ends up feeling emotionally unseen
When you feel your mental health is going bad again, try random things. Clean your room, take a walk with no destination, enjoy your favorite ice cream flavor or just ghost everyone. Sometimes, the smallest things can help you feel like yourself again.
i think what really changed me was realizing how many times i silenced my own feelings just to keep the peace with people who never would’ve done the same for me