Be. Do. Have. If you focus on the becoming, then the doing will take care of itself. And if you let the doing take care of itself. The doing will take care of the having.
People are always revealing themselves, whether they know it or not. And truly seeing someone is a spiritual skill. It requires you to stop trying to force yourself to feel a particular way about someone. Instead you allow yourself to feel however you naturally feel. And then use that as information to understand who they are.
You need to be whole and happy on your own before you enter a relationship so you don’t depend on them to feel fulfilled. You need to love your own company so you can truly discern whether someone is adding value to your life or simply filling a void. Love is two whole people choosing each other devotionally and adding to the fullness of the lives they’ve already built
It was a surprise tournament, no hope post Roland Garros, straight from a round 1 whooping last year, no grass wins in 2 years, BEST Wimbledon run in her career, Coco Puffs, we move!!!!