All songs with lyrics should be judged by their lyrics. They should be good poetry, and I have literally never heard of a song with lyrics that would pass for even *decent* poetry, which informs part of my belief that all popular music consists of artistic failure.
You gotta maintain a lightness to your heart because turning into a bitter loser obsessed with how people have done you wrong is the most off-putting and unrewarding way a person can choose to be