@cryzyck @TotallyGeeky @punishedmother “i am not attracted to you” is a fact, not an insult. if you take someone honestly sharing they do not view you in that manner as an intentional insult youre dense as hell
@skedussu @hyyh_joonie @ellorysmith my family has an entire lawn of bamboo and i can tell you firsthand it would be a nightmare for urban areas. maybe spend your time gaining real life experiences rather than throwing a hissy fit over an app
@jocbeee@averylazygirl@ask_aubry im sorry the girl you know makes you feel forced to justify your actions and talks down to you, but thats not the case for what i’m talking about. its very obvious in my tone that im not judging when i ask people these questions - just a curious person!
@BBPropJojo@averylazygirl@ask_aubry but i think thats just a different in mindset. “i would’ve done it differently” to me often means “but maybe i should try it your way, tell me in your experience why it works for you.” innocently asking ab someone’s reasoning for doing things certain ways isnt inherently judgment
@sassenactivist@averylazygirl@ask_aubry but those are assumptions you’re making. me asking why someone has so much stuff in their bag doesn’t mean i think it’s too much stuff - it means i’m curious why they have the amount they have. doing something one way doesnt mean i judge the other
@Attergangarr@averylazygirl@ask_aubry i totally get being careful to not correct people, but i was saying in my case (and supposedly in OP’s case as well) it’s not because i think my way is better. it’s because i’m curious why you do it your way, i’m interested in people’s habits