“He has childhood trauma.” So do I.
“He’s under a lot of pressure at work.” So am I.
“He’s just overwhelmed.” Me too.
The only difference is that we excuse men’s behavior, and shame women for not carrying it.
The only reason I never wanted to be w a man that has kids is cause of the psycho bm’s and no I’m not talking about no bowel movements. I pray the lord always keeps me from being bitter or petty.
always remember to check your own attitude too. it’s not always the world around you, sometimes you are the toxic person. understand that you can make mistakes and hurt people. understand that there are things you need to work on. apologise, unlearn, and relearn, that’s growth. 💗
I don’t want my daughter to be like me. I want her to speak up sooner. Walk away faster. Trust herself deeper. Apologize less. Take up more space. Ask bigger questions. Dream louder. And if that means she becomes everything I wasnt… GOOD!