Please, guys, go to your ideal person. If you're into skinny, pursue someone who's skinny. If you hate an outgoing type of person, please pursue someone who's more reserved, conservative and introverted. If you can't deal with someone who is high-maintenance then don't date one.
and that includes understanding your chaos, supporting your journey, and giving you enough distance to think. I know that sometimes, you just need to choose yourself, but your love for me remains the same.
And my love, it's okay.
It's okay, my love.
It's okay to do your thing. It's okay to reply late. It's okay to be sad and not talk to me. It's okay to turn off your phone and sleep all day. It's okay to be distant.
It's okay to figure things out on your own. It's okay to restore your peace of mind. It's okay to weep silently from the baggage you still carry. It's okay to lie down for a while and forget about everything. It's okay.
Remember that I love you—
when people are like “oh so you’re just gonna judge someone for their political beliefs?” yes actually. I think someone’s values and opinions is a pretty reasonable thing to judge them for.
it's okay to take a break after all that happened to you. the world may not understand the process you have to go through but don't mind them 'cause it's you who's in pain and not them.
life can sometimes be tough and challenging. there may be days when you feel overwhelmed, when things don’t go as planned. but remember, “every cloud has a silver lining”. this means that no matter how hard things might seem, there is always a positive side, always remember that.
Instead of feeling like you’re being left behind, why not take a moment to look back and see just how far you’ve come? Sometimes, we get so caught up comparing ourselves to others that we forget the progress we’ve made on our own journey.
Every step, every struggle, every little win has brought you closer to where you want to be. So pause, appreciate your growth, and give yourself credit for the strength that has carried you this far. You may not be where you want to be yet,