@vet23494@coquetteefawn you boiling it down to ‘men bad’ is precisely the issue. women point out patterns, red flags, unfair double standards to protect themselves and realize their worth. men see this and instead of thinking ‘i will not repeat that pattern’ think ‘boohoo i’m not the bad one’
@Sierra96Davis@coquetteefawn on paper, the concept of holding urself accountable in order to not repeat toxic patterns is great. in reality, this is a needed survival instinct that women have proven to need time and time again because men themselves are not interested in holding true to their part.
@Sierra96Davis@coquetteefawn you can argue that women shouldn’t “stoop down to this”, but is this really to keep the same energy, or to make sure women stop speaking up about their experiences because it makes men uncomfortable? all he meanwhile, men have absolutely no issue making women uncomfortable.
You guys gotta stop acting like female rape victims are treated well and given help. You can uplift male victims and defend them without denying the very real societal abuse female victims face even after the initial rape.
you’re threatened bc it’s no longer a niche personality trait you can claim to yourself. wait till you realize that ‘mean popular kid’ in highschool was also neurodivergent but just learned to mask it early and teased you for not having learned how to mask it correctly just yet.
not to mention a lot of poc households still consider these disorders to be a ‘skill issue’ that kids just need to get over. like, no DUH social media has made it easier for people to recognize it and question whether they have it or not.
@theceaz45@hibernianjester@Beebooduck it definitely depends on the context! i can see how it’s frustrating when people aren’t clear with it and string you along. hope u have better experiences 🫶