The freedom of women is protected by state sanctioned male violence. Itโs a difficult truth but it is truth.
Meaning that if a feminists rights is breach by a man, she needs another man to check mate the abuser.
Feminism depends on men.
Learn or learn the hard way
@jon_d_doe It's easier to overlook a lesbian than a homo.
You may not even know when a girl is a lesbian but you'll most likely know when a boy is gay.
Permit me to say, God forbid the both.
You've got it wrong.
You don't allow the idea of malice to exist under your roof.
Your job is to set the precedence.
It's not just about apologizing when a woman is wrong but being strategic to do that when you know the matter is intense.
It is a man's job to GROOM his woman and if she doesn't apologize when she is wrong.
It indicates that he didn't teach her that or he knew she had that trait that her father didn't inculcate in her and still married her.
Either way, the man is to be blamed.
Being a husband to a woman requires wisdom, endurance and patience.
If you deal with a woman with the same hands you deal with a man, you'll break her in two.
Don't keep malice by marrying a communicative woman or by marrying a teachable woman who will learn that from you.
"Happy wife, happy life" is a foolish mantra propagated by the men of our father's generation.
It has brought resentment and fueled the perpetual idea of female innocence.
I don't believe in that at all. Therefore, it wasn't the point I was making.
Learn or learn the hard way.
I have told you young men,
While it's good to treat your girlfriends with love and kindness, make sure that she's more afraid of losing you than you're more afraid of losing her.
Know when to apologise and when to tell her to fuck off.
Especially if you have gotten to a stage in life where you know you are ready to be a husband and a father.
At this stage, your girlfriend must show that she's willing to stay with you, and willing to be a wife.
Threatening you with a break up should never be rewarded with begging.
Tell her to fuck off, especially when you know that you're doing right by her and she's not willing to change, be appreciative or respectful.
There are hundreds of girls ready to replace her.
End.
@iamklausenberg You dn pack your bag mean say na your wife marry you put for house. Otherwise that thought should never cross her mind, not to talk of doing it a third time.
Na you 4kup.
The consequences of cheating are not the same for men and women.
Men have it better
Women have it worse
The consequences of raping someone is not the same for men and women.
Women have it better
Men have it worse
The consequences of murdering someone is not the same for men and women
Men have it worse
Women have it better
The consequences of sextape being leaked is not the same for men and women
Women have it worse
Men have it better
The consequences of being broke is not the same for men and women
Women have it better
Men have it worse
The consequences of physically abusing someone is not the same for men and women
Women have it better
Men have it worse
The consequences of talking smack to some is not the same for men and women
Women have it better
Men have it worse
What I have come to understand is that women want everything to favour them.
There was a viral video of a man getting beat up for pulling his pants down inside a train by other men.
But we have schools invite women to come twerking half naked for our children.
Those are societal bias.
It didn't see you, OloriOfOloris, nor me before it became normalized.
Women's values are attached to their bodies and they know it.
A naked woman is likely to be rushed by depraved men, if we had a primitive society.
A naked man will get beat up for sexually harassing women and children because very few women would be fazed.
Those are our biological differences that we all don't like but have to deal with.
Stop b*thing๐ซต๐พ fall in line.
Learn or you'll lose ๐ซต๐พ
Fuck your husbands well.
Suck their dicks and squirt anyhow you want on him.
But don't do it because you're hoping that it would make him not to look at another woman outside.
If you want him to be happy coming back to you, be his peace, & respect & submit to him.
End.
Consent is the reason why women think they shouldn't be hit back, harder, after they've hit a man.
"Never hit a woman no matter what," but the same person wants to be deemed a man's equal, even fights for the cause, still.
Ask for consent, but realise that most times, it will fetch the opposite of the intended result.
In reality, asking a lady to come Netflix and chill with you will get you laid.
As opposed to asking her whether she'd want to fuck.
Bring it down to our culture as Nigerians, the women here enjoy the chase.
They want sex as bad as men do, but they enjoy the resistance.
Therefore, the men have to apply pressure.
You'd hear things like, "Just because I turned you down doesn't mean I don't want you."
Women, in general, are guilty of the same thing.
"No means No," and then, you'd accept her "No," and she'd be upset.
Men would tell you that prevention is better than cure. To which I agree.
But not even respecting her requests ensures your safety.
So, be a man about it.
With women, you never can be too careful.
They are more loyal to their feelings than anything else.
Be involved with those who share the same kind of emotions with you.
That way, it saves you from having to worry about all those shenanigans.
Learn or you'll lose ๐ซต๐พ
Wanting to trigger a woman because she pretends to be blind is foolish.
Wise women know their man will and has the potential to cheat.
They hope and pray he never cheats but know within themselves that even if he does, they'd never leave him.
Especially when that man is kind, selfless and genuinely committed to the relationship or marriage.
Husbands are scarce and women know but they employ cunning to make their men think it is them, their wives, who are scarce and not them, their husbands.
That way je doesn't know his worth and feels like him, she, too, isn't worth losing.
Women with your exact kind of traits are a dime a dozen, the game is women hope men never reason that way or have the guts to reason that way because their men thinking like that will threaten their positions with them.
They will always be insecure and feel he can opt and leave her and that's what women hate the most...being abandoned by a man, even when she feels she has him under her leash.
Some women that never apologize will even kneel to beg their husbands not to leave them.
Where am I going with this? I am glad you asked.
Putting a woman through all that kind of emotional rollercoaster does come at a cost, when you finally decide to yoke your cause with theirs.
If you choose your wife, even if you later figure out the worst things you missed out during and before the wedding, you must carry out the duties expected of you as a husband.
It is why you must understand why it is said that when a man chooses his wife, he chooses his destiny.
You should know that if you don't properly vet the woman you wish to end up marrying, you will be a slave forever and all your efforts would be pouring water into a basket.
So, if your woman understands that you, her man, can cheat and she has to deal with it.
Never take the resources that she believes she has EARNED AND IS ENTITLED to (because you must be selfish in a relationship and selfless in a marriage) and make her beg or be forced to share it with an outside woman.
It will summon the Jezebel spirit and Eve will stand aside and watch it happen.
Eves are soft women with a reasonable idea of the world. They are women. Eves are not feminists. Feminists are Jezebels. Jezebels suffer from penis envy.
Your wife won't blink after catching you in bed with another woman but the moment she learns that the woman's children goes to a better school than the ones she bore for you and have been "managing with you" or that the woman gets more of your attention to where it's now obvious you are cheating.
That's the only one time to chant "FEAR WOMAN" because those moments are when the devil stands aside and allows the woman to dance the feminine dance.
Guess what the "feminine dance" is?
Manipulation.
You don't want to face a cunning woman in her autem imperator energy.
Therefore, remember the unspoken rules of infidelity and move with discretion.
A good husband is a "blind" husband and a good wife is a "foolish" wife.
I just spoke. I hope you listen.
Learn or you'll lose ๐ซต๐พ