If you go through my TL, you’ll probably be confused.
But I understand myself well and I can clearly see but truths.
I end up supporting the idea that would cause more good and less harm.
I will not tell anyone to invite me to their company’s EOY party. It is left to you to make that choice. Go and ask the companies that invited me last year, they are performing better now.
Miles Morales being called “hood Spider-Man” is crazy as shit, seeing as his mom is a nurse, his dad is a cop, he goes to private school, and his parents own a house.
Hood where???
Peter Parker is the poor mf who lives in a shitty apartment , but okay
I’ve been happily married for 31 years, my husband is my favorite person, and I still don’t recommend marriage to young women because I’ve learned that the marriage I have is so unusual it’s like winning the lottery. Too risky. Don’t do it.
It’s about time Africa stands by herself. What is happening in Sudan and Congo deserves the same urgency, coverage, and public attention given to crises elsewhere.
Bc it’s in Africa specifically Congo , if they teaching about the Congo basin it would raise concerns and awareness in Congo about what’s goin on there
How about we unite as Africans and push for Peace in Sudan and Congo... Let's pause on the twars for a min, Our African brothers are being butchered men.
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Raised N30,000
Remaining N350,000
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The woman who sells pap for me was complaining to my neighbor that her 9-year-old daughter has started developing breasts, and to make matters worse, the girl has started menstruating.
She was almost in tears.
I asked her what was wrong with a 9yr old growing breasts and she said, “She is too young. Men will start pursuing her. How will I explain that this girl is only 9 years old? In our time, 9-year-olds didn't have breasts.”
At first, her fear sounded almost funny to me. Because children developing early is not some indication that they are ready for men. Puberty doesn't suddenly make a 9-year-old an adult.
But then I remembered something. Even when I was in school, particularly in junior secondary school, the girls who some male teachers went after were often the ones who developed breasts early, had fuller bodies and looked more physically mature than the other girls. Those of us who looked like broomsticks? Nobody sent us.
And suddenly, I understood why this woman was afraid. Her fear wasn't completely irrational. She wasn't worried because she thought her daughter had suddenly become a woman. She was worried because she knows there are men who look at a child's developing body and choose to ignore the fact that she is still a child.
And that is what bothers me.
Why should a mother have to fear her daughter developing breasts early because men might start pursuing her?
Does a child's body suddenly make her less of a child? A 9yr old with breasts is still 9 years old. A 9 yr old who menstruates is still 9 years old. Her body developing early does not give any adult permission to sexualize her.
Maybe the conversation shouldn't be about teaching mothers not to fear puberty. Maybe we should be asking why there are grown men who need to be taught that a child is a child, regardless of what her body looks like.
School fees in LASU used to be 25k less than ten years ago.
Yoruba President, Yoruba governor, Yoruba vice chancellor increased it.
Yoruba VC even said we should pay one million.
1m Tinubu naira in a state university that ought to be subsidized so that indigenes can benefit
#freepreciousabudu#freepreciousabudu#freepreciousabudu
My brother didn’t commit any crime, neither was he on his way to, he was on his was to serve this country while he got kidnapped alongside other nysc corpers, please we need all the help we can get🥹
This is the truth.
Pregnancy can be used as a tool to trap, control, or permanently tie a woman to a relationship.
This is why I say: Guard your wombs.
That doesn’t mean don’t get pregnant. It doesn’t mean don’t fall in love, get married, have children, or build a beautiful family.
It means make those decisions because you genuinely want them, not because you’re afraid of losing someone, trying to save a relationship, being pressured, or moving faster than you’re ready for.
Give yourself time to heal. Give yourself time to know the person you’re building with. Give yourself time to decide whether motherhood is what you want and whether now is the right time for you.
And understand why your partner wants children too.
Does he genuinely want to parent? Does he understand the responsibility that comes with fatherhood? Does he respect what pregnancy, childbirth and motherhood will require from you? Or does he simply like the idea of having a wife and children? Does he see a baby as something that will make it harder for you to leave?
Ask questions. Pay attention to actions. Question intentions when something doesn’t feel right.
Make informed decisions about your body, your future and motherhood.
Your womb should never be the price you pay to keep a relationship.