@tboseZA@THATninahastie Bathong GF? A tswe mo dilong. She's lucky you don't consider her a househelp, she must just be the princess and lift her feet so that aunty can mop
@tboseZA This is life. We are not always what we think we are you others. You both have a chance to review the friendship and do better. It might be that you told him everything because he is all you had, while he had others that he could open up to - wishing you both grace.
@tboseZA@CalvinFallo Whatever your fears are, don't beat yourself up, I understand that the boy is almost 20 if not above, he is grown, he reached out to the father and was rejected - he can decide. As much as parents can disown kids when they are disgruntled, the son can decide
@tboseZA It seems your friend always accessed your bedroom and bathroom - you and her both don't see a problem with it, hence she's comfortable doing it even around others - your mother could have been a bit measured about it - mara wena le mmata le wrong
@tboseZA Papagao would now be 78, and u are no longer 25 so its not a fair comparison. What you're doing with the 58 year old, u wouldnt do with your dad (excuse the crass). Mourn the passing of your dad, the end of a the young man, afford the 58 year old grace & see him as an individual
@tboseZA Get him counseling to deal with the trauma, equip him with self defense, escalate the school issue with all relevant authorities, including SAPS.