dude i dont fucking get it about this issue with partner preference. if you want to find a certain look, body type, financial state, education level THEN GO AHEAD MY DUDES? who is forcing you to settle?
I tak tau doh some of yall sounds like you have this cognitive dissonance; you nak type yang susah senang bersama, yet you try partner high maintenance? you nak submissive partner girl/boy next door, yet taste yang you try self sufficient career people? you nak bertudung bersongkok bagai but you try gejala sosial type? bila kena reject due to different values kome merentan ??😰 like no shit!
or was it saviour complex if you get to change and fit someone into your preference?
forcing EVERYONE to have same mindset,value & lifestyle as you when clearly everyones journey is different is crazy work.
“Anything higher than a 3 is for the male gaze” - says the woman
“That’s wrong” - SAYS THE MAN AND LITERALLY PROVING HER POINT.
4 and 5 is what MEN LIKE TO SEE
It's funny that some men sesuka hati boleh rogol sana sini termasuk perempuan yg tengah koma dan dah mati, tapi takde pulak masyarakat buat naratif "sepatutnya lelaki kena kurung dalam sangkar"
THINGS I DONT DEBATE WITH MEN :
1. Abortion
2. Breastfeeding
3. Menstruation
4. Female body hair
5. Birth Control
6. Access to feminine hygiene products
Why? Because NONE of those involve the male body & therefore don't create any valid MALE OPINIONS