Step 4 is like walking in a dark forest. The path is lit and unambiguous. Just proceed and you'll be fine. You're perfectly safe on the path.
However: do not leave the path and wander into the woods.
Don't even stop and gaze, or eyes in the woods will start staring back at you.
Onstage at @nyopencenter last night with son/co-facilitator @DanielBMate for the US debut of our #HelloAgain workshop on parent/adult-child relationships: