@bookaadda Yes, the Kindle is out today, as the wonderful @monikamanchanda just reminded me. This is the link for the Kindle edition: https://t.co/zhxsKF76ZM
@bookaadda It is such an important learning. We have to give ourselves permission to self care, to be selfish, to step away. We have to stop being the ones picking up all the slack.
@bookaadda I don't consciously try to weave in a message. It is always simply the story. In Saving Maya, I ended with the uncertainty of the Happily Right Now over the mythic Happily Ever After. In Missing, Presumed Dead, I talk about PPD, and mental illness and emotional abuse.
Self care is not a message that we receive growing up. It is good to see it modeled.
And it is good to see the younger generation look out for themselves. Maybe a story there one day :)
@bookaadda Yes, agree, there is too much emotional labour that women do, and I have at the ripe old age of 47 given myself permission to stop taking on what is not essential. There's only so much one can do, I think women need to start being https://t.co/bNVR935IT8 is self preservation.
@bookaadda I don't think so, writing humour is easy if it comes easy to you. If it doesn't and you have to labour, then it might be harder. But I think it is different for every writer--and oh gosh, Meeta, please tell me there's light at the end of this teen parenting tunnel!
Let’s talk about messaging, possibly about feminism for you, or other themes. When an author tries to drive home a message, it often jars in the flow of the story. Do you interweave a message in your stories, or is it simply the story? For example, in this latest? @kiranmanral
Now people would say this is life, but I'd agree that this is part of the emotional labour that women do, burdens they carry, seemingly invisible to all @KiranManral
@bookaadda Yes, there is external and internal conflict, there is mental illness, there is parenting, there is confronting ageing, there is also marriage and the paths it takes us down. So yes, this is a much more complex book than my earlier ones.
@bookaadda Yes, there is external and internal conflict, there is mental illness, there is parenting, there is confronting ageing, there is also marriage and the paths it takes us down. So yes, this is a much more complex book than my earlier ones.
@Meetasengupta Hmm. They're getting darker, yes. Even Saving Maya which is funny has layers of social commentary, and is rather subversive. I think it is because I'm parenting a teen now. I'm blaming him completely for it. When I emerge safely through his teens, I might get back to funny.
Hah! Just you wait...he is a young teen now.
Older teens take you to even tougher places.
You may need the funnies sooner than you think.
But is writing humour harder? @KiranManral
@Meetasengupta Hmm. They're getting darker, yes. Even Saving Maya which is funny has layers of social commentary, and is rather subversive. I think it is because I'm parenting a teen now. I'm blaming him completely for it. When I emerge safely through his teens, I might get back to funny.
Conflicts, dichotomies, and now we said, darker themes.
In your current book, it's more complex than just a dichotomy, isn't it. You have more layers here than in the previous stories... @KiranManral