In case you weren’t raised correctly, it is a man's job to set the tone in a relationship. Whether people want to admit it or not, a woman feeds off his energy.. his consistency, his intentions, his presence. She takes what he gives and reflects it. When a man leads with clarity, love, and respect, it creates a space where a woman can feel safe, soft, and secure. Vice versa, when he leads with confusion, mixed signals, and inconsistency, it forces her to operate in survival mode. She becomes guarded, unsure, and emotionally exhausted 💡
To all my girls chasing a new chapter, be gentle with yourself. What’s meant for you will always find you, so trust the process and give yourself grace. You’ve got this! 💕
Victim mentality is at an all-time high.
Playing the victim when you created the situation is a manipulation tactic to avoid responsibility, gain sympathy, or control a narrative.
Manipulating the story might protect your image for a while, but it won't bring peace.
"you're too picky"
His morals will raise my children. His hands will protect my home. His heart will nurture mine when I'm hurting.
You’re not picky enough
Your growth is real. Like a flower whose roots have more length than its stem, outward appearances don’t give justice to your internal progress. What you’ve transmuted in such a short amount of time is simply miraculous. You’re a warrior & have newfound strength to prove it.
I prayed for people and poured on this journey even when I was empty. I continued to applaud, lead, and patiently waited until my plan & God’s purpose aligned. It’s truly only up from here.
Blessed to have genuine people around me this past weekend- friends & family. I felt so much love, they poured into me with words and actions. I cried so much. This journey was so hard but God ❤️🔥
I finally closed this chapter.
Ms BSN, RN with a double minor in child welfare and substance abuse. I also received the Service to Profession Award. Happy Nurses Week ✨🩺🧠