@ssbbwjae I was talking to an old Friend that I got reacquainted with last Week or so about this; I was expressing these same sentiments, and more, only for her to remain Negative and feeling Hopeless. Some People just aren't ready for that Change, that Growth.
@ssbbwjae This is where Self-Love & Self-Acceptance comes in. I've been trying to reach this Goal my entire Life, and it finally seems like it's within my grasp.
@ssbbwjae Honestly speaking, I've NEVER treated a Woman as a Sex Object. I don't use Women for Sex, that's not the Endgame for me. I don't like it when Men treat Big Girls as a Fetish, just as I don't like it when Big Women allow it.
@ssbbwjae It sucks that you are retiring (even though you was semi-retired already), and I was planning on Drawing some Portraits of you and show them to you when they were finished, but all good things come to an end, I guess. Just remember your Past doesn't define you.
@ssbbwjae Dude, you said you was Healing? Work on that: Loving yourself, Accepting your Pearfect Imperfections, and--this is the most Important--FORGIVE YOURSELF. Only then can you learn to Love yourself more.