why do yall say this as though gay men can't hide their identity? a person who can hide a marginalized identity and pass and participate in an oppressive society is indisputably better off than a person who cannot and suffers that marginalization and oppression at all times.
it kills me a little when people call haalingham yaoi slop lmaoo if uve spent any amount of time in shipping spaces thats just not true 😭 90% of fandoms would die at the thought of a tall, muscular black man being the bottom
any country where homosexuality carries a 14 year prison sentence will most likely also be extremely misogynistic. gay males there can hide their sexuality and oppress women with the straight males, but women can’t hide being female and are oppressed from the womb because of it.
Since when is a 22 year old supposed to have their shit together?? Go text some freak that doesn’t care if you live or die what else is there to do at that age