ava⁷ is still mourning dimple.

full time btspopper, 18 year old girl on the side

[ava⁷ is still mourning dimple. @borahava7]

i’m so excited for bts to perform dimple at the fifa world cup

[ava⁷ is still mourning dimple. @borahava7]

my brother, my friends, my extended family all listen to and support CB. are they horrible people? no. they just haven’t thought critically about their actions. BTS are regular people too, and even though i’m bummed i’m going to treat them just as i do my irl relationships.

[ALIEN Jung Hoseok⁷ ⊙⊝⊜ | @SierraNicoIe]

People seem to be missing the point here. I read Harry Potter. Own the books, own some merch, celebrate the art as a part of my culture and history…but I’m not going to tag JK Rowling in an appreciation post about the books. I’m not going to post a picture with them. That’s the difference here. Everyone one of us engages with art created by people who have done terrible things. To criticize someone for that would be hypocritical and self-righteous. But the choice to platform and celebrate the ARTIST while engaging with that art is deserving of criticism. And you can levy that criticism without cultivating hatred for the members or taking away from their core of decency and legacy of positive impact. My idols, two men I deeply love a respect, made an error in judgment today by publicly hyping a documented prolific abuser. That doesn’t make them bad people, it makes them human. And I’m engaging with their public update to express that disappointment and ask them to consider how this specific action may negatively affect their fans. That is also human. It’s totally reasonable and fair. It’s not hate, it’s not disillusionment about their perceived “perfection,” it’s simply a reciprocal interaction of two humans who happen to disagree about something important. Surely we’re all (including Namseok) old enough and mature enough to open that dialogue and reflect on our choices without escalating it into cancelling or defending without reproach. If my best friend tagged CB in a hype post, I’d text him expressing my disappointment in that choice, too. That’s not me trying to control him or condemning him as evil. It’s just me hoping he’ll take a minute to reflect on his action. No love or respect lost, just a conversation started.

So stop acting like talking about it and criticizing it is hateful and please stop expecting perfection from these normal grown men. Just be a normal human who can acknowledge mistakes while still loving and respecting the good people who make them.

[🕸 @jolie_orchid]

I genuinely think my relationship with stanning BTS went through a change in 2023 where I was like okay they’re like legit just regular people. And sometimes regular people make you happy and disappoint you in equal measure. There is no grand emotional conspiracy behind this

[🍉🐝'maude'⁷ @sunnysoulmates]

'just unstan just unstan just unstan' idk about you guys but i actually live in a world where people have a right to be upset and to want to change things for the better rather than just abandon ship every single time something is disappointing.

[ava⁷ is still mourning dimple. @borahava7]

okay im going to bed there better be an essay long apology in the morning

[Brit Min⁷ ♱ @it_britMin]

Regrésenme a cuando hace unas horas me estaba cagando de la risa por ver a Jin nalguear a su tuna

[for namjin.💍⊙⊝⊜ @jinjoonierkives]

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[ava⁷ is still mourning dimple. @borahava7]

im just sad. chris brown beats women. and as a woman, im hurt. do better @BTS_twt

[ava⁷ is still mourning dimple. @borahava7]

@btsluver134340 okay i tried again, if it doesn’t work that’s okay

[ava⁷ is still mourning dimple. @borahava7]

@btsluver134340 ok im requesting

[ava⁷ is still mourning dimple. @borahava7]

@btsluver134340 i keep seeing open spots but im not sure how to join

[ava⁷ is still mourning dimple. @borahava7]

@btsluver134340 can i speak soon

[ava⁷ is still mourning dimple. @borahava7]

@btsluver134340 can i chime in once there’s an open spot

[ava⁷ is still mourning dimple. @borahava7]

@btsluver134340 can i please say something

[ava⁷ is still mourning dimple. @borahava7]

@btsluver134340 could i say something pleasee

[ava⁷ is still mourning dimple. @borahava7]

@btsluver134340 he has 150 million followers on instagram and that blows my mind

[lauren⁷ @chewyyooongi]

anyway! i just donated to WARM, an NYC-based non-profit dedicated to helping survivors of domestic violence, predominately women of color. i accompanied my donation with a “💜” if you have the means, i encourage you to do the same!

https://t.co/C98ixTSQZl

[ava⁷ is still mourning dimple. @borahava7]

@jasloev YUUUUCK like actually