at some point, constantly reminding people how to treat you becomes exhausting. healthy relationships don’t require weekly lessons in respect. when someone repeatedly ignores what matters to you, stepping away becomes an act of self-respect.
After a certain age, being a bad partner is just embarrassing. Sooo you didn’t do any work on yourself? No introspection, no healing, no growth… just basking in your toxicity huh? Like Age should come with wisdom, and that includes being a good partner. Refusing to grow is like skipping your emotional homework and wondering why you keep flunking the relationship tests. Time to hit the books on self-improvement and grow tf up.
just APOLOGIZE to your partner when you know you messed up bruh… all that manipulative behavior and getting mad at them for being upset when they have a valid reason is just weird. people love to say they’re grown until it’s time to take accountability.
Stop chasing after people & being the only one trying to fix everything. It's mentally and physically exhausting. You have to find peace with whoever comes and goes from your life. Don't be the only one putting in effort because you will lose yourself trying to save someone else.