Dominance Notes: Regular check ins are not only a vital consent mechanic, they are an opportunity to intensify surrender. It is usually not necessary to stop the sex to check in (and some subs will be irritated if you do). Instead, I like to slow down to a measured, rolling, sensual pace, and incorporate the check in as a feature of what I'm doing to @TattedAsianBoi. This is not a perfunctory welfare check, it is another submission ritual with its own heady power. I'm still exerting my will over him - I'm requiring him to more actively consider the experience he's having on multiple dimensions. My typical check in will separately cover different aspects of how I'm wielding my power over him: the way I'm fucking him, the things I'm saying to him, and more generally the way I'm treating him. If I've been biting him I'll ask if the pressure is right for him. If he's in any sort of stress position, that's another question. Each question is sexy because it frames the things I'm doing to him as sensitive to his experience, AND because it forces him to consider how that feature of my practice is contributing to his submissive headspace. I then follow up with affirmations about what *I* like, because after that kind of evaluation some boys get into their head about whether they're satisfying, and i want to head that off with some very specific praise for him.
I think both the Dom top and the fag knows, that moaning was never goi Ng to make the nailing stop. If the Dom could nail the fag into the bed, he would even if he breaks the bed doing it