So many women in their mid to late 30’s, hell even 40’s, are miserable today because they played by society’s rules and now realize they didn’t have to do that.
Sometimes I will work an entire shift next to a nurse who is incredibly competent, thoughtful, and skilled at healthcare and then she will turn to me at the end of the shift and say some shit like "they're putting chemicals in Mountain Dew to make more children turn trans."
i know that i live in a cultural bubble as a gay person living in a coastal city but it’s genuinely hard for me to conceptualize the sort of person that enjoys ed sheeran enough to pay for tickets to go to his concert. that’s been the most shocking part of this whole thing for me
the truth is. I really dont believe in/want to make any strong effort in my dating life whatsoever. I just want it to miraculously happen in the way it’s supposed to