I kinda love it when women revel in obvious misogyny that their boyfriends do to other women because it will inevitably come back at them like a boomerang lol. I’m sure your man is a keeper tho 😹
i feel a lot of discussion of kinks as coping mechanism also completely and almost intentional fail to address extreme kinks as self harming and unhealthy coping mechanism.
"why did my partner break down crying, if they consented to it? why did they say they regretted it?"
I support safe explorations of kink, but on an attempt to critique (real) puritanism / sex shaming, you started denying abuse and bigotry happen in kink spaces too.
Can't critique rape culture, you might offend the CNC blogger that insists all women fantasize being abused.