Married men,
Stop your wives from attending every religious events and going from one spiritualist to another, or even joining any online religious groups.
And exposing your innocent children to it.
If it has gone beyond attending Sunday church or Friday mosque, ask her to cut off the rest and pray at home.
If not, she may ruin your home and their mentality with fake visions and fake enemies.
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I saw a video from a young man.
He's a billionaire.
He said that:
"You can never be better or bigger than the person who was there for you when you had nothing and gave you hope and life. Even if you're now far richer or more famous than the person"
Let that sink.
End.
When a man is asking you out, he does most of the calling.
When you accept to be his girlfriend, he still does most of the calling.
After he fucks you, the calling will reduce and his response to your calls or messages will be slower or delayed.
It's now your turn to be doing the calling and chasing.
If you allow his drop in communication or attention frustrate you and you start to crash out, he will use it as an opportunity to break up with you, because he has gotten what he initially wanted - your toto.
No matter what a man tells you when he was chasing you, he is mostly after your toto.
It's how you behave after he has chopped your toto that may keep him.
Getting a man's attention is cheap.
It's his commitment that is expensive.
End.
Always remember...
Men are the PRIZE.
And women are the PRICE.
There is nowhere a woman is mandated to spend any money during her wedding.
But the man must spend to marry his wife.
She positions herself and wins the PRIZE through femininity, respect and faithfulness.
While he shows love through leadership, protection and provision (PRICE).
That is why the bride is always the happiest during wedding ceremony.
Because she is the winner of the PRIZE.
Good morning.
If her/his father or mother is a pastor, imam, spiritualist of traditional worshipper.
Please, do not see it as a divine calling.
Or that you have struck a goldmine.
See it as their occupation & do not get carried away by it.
Religious people are mostly hypocrites.
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A woman from a dirty house can sleep with a man from a clean house.
But a man from a dirty house may find it difficult to sleep with a woman from dirty house.
Please work hard men.
A man from a dirty house does not have to come from a clean house.
And so is a woman.
End.
A woman will survive with or without you.
If you don't want to spend on her to better her life, she'll look for another mumu man that will do it for her.
Just make sure that you're not the mumu man.
End.
What I know is this.
When a man finds his wife, he will know.
Nobody needs to tell him that.
But if the woman that you want to marry is your ex that has gone ahead to date or sleep with other men, you have not found your wife yet.
End.
Dear young men,
Especially those of you between the ages of 27-33 and are still single.
This is how you know that you may have found your wife:
1. She's highly interested in what you do legitimately for a living, actively trying to encourage you to build your career or business, and always looking out for other opportunities for you.
2. If you live alone, she takes initiatives without being told by observing your home and trying to buy things she knows you need to live a better life in preparation for marriage.
3. She will hardly ask you for money, not because she doesn't need it, but because it's easy for her to get money from other men. And she knows that taking money from other men is an "invitation to treat", and can destroy her relationship with you. And she wouldn't want to make you feel that she's with you for your money, too.
4. When you give her money to do certain things, either for you or for her, she'll try to give you an account of how she spent the money.
5. She keeps boundaries with your friends and doesn't try to compare you with them. Rather, she would look out for that friend whom she observes has your best interests at heart, and encourage you to stay close to him.
6. She will not use sex as a weapon in the relationship, neither would she use it as a bargaining chip.
7. She actively gives you updates on how her day went, and she doesn't come to your house with her phone on silent mode or airplane mode.
8. She will try to abide by how you like her to dress, and she'll listen to you when you caution her about certain behavior that you do not like.
9. She'll actively want you to know her siblings and show interest in and respect for your siblings as well.
10. She'll not hold back if you ask her to lend you money, if she has it. But you, the man, must keep to your words when paying her back.
11. She'll bend many rules for you, but you should not take undue advantage of it.
12. She'll stress you sometimes, and test you in as many ways as possible. She's doing all that to see how well you can lead her, and how well you can control your emotions or anger.
13. She'll make mistakes. But you should use it as a teaching moment for her. If you don't judge her too harshly, she'll start to listen to you more. When you make a woman trust you with her vulnerability, she'll overlook some of your excesses.
14. She'll actively seek your validation and yours alone; whatever you say is good for her, she will accept it. And she won't care what the world says or feels about her.
15. She will not force you to be religious, but she will actively observe whether you respect God, because a man without God may not be a good leader.
If you have a lady that can do at least 10 out of the 15, you may have found your wife.
And remember, when you choose your wife, you have chosen your destiny.
End.
As a married man, you do not use money as a tool to control your wife and enslave her.
You use it as a means to sustain your marriage with her, and earn your respect and submission.
Your wife should not beg you for money.
She should ask you when she needs money.
End.