a good spiritual boundary to practice is not being interested in what’s going on in the lives of those you’re no longer connected to. protecting your energy isn’t just about keeping certain people out. it’s about staying out of their energy fields too.
tbh feeling "off" about someone doesn't always have to be due to some sinister thing because sometimes when I feel off about someone, they're going through emotional turbulence, not hidden animosity.
i can’t relate to a lot of yall friendship conversations because i’m not mediocre. i show up, i save birthdays, i pick up the phone, im reliable, a cheerleader, a motivator, and when i miss something important i send a gift and an apology. i have friends because i am a friend.
i’m not interested in complicated relationships… with friends, family or lovers. i’m not interested in constantly explaining what i meant. i’m not interested in making sure we’re on good terms bc you’re acting weird. i’m not interested in shrinking myself to make us equal..