Most couples break up after having a baby because the woman changes and a lot of the time, she changes because she’s basically doing everything by herself. 😭 She has to take care of the baby, make the bottles, get up throughout the night, cook, clean, AND still take care of her man. Now she’s exhausted, overwhelmed, and touched out, so sex isn’t really on her mind. Then instead of the man stepping up and helping her, y’all start arguing, he feels neglected, she feels unsupported, and sometimes he ends up cheating. 💀
A baby doesn’t necessarily ruin a relationship. The lack of support after the baby comes can.
being on Savannah side is rooted in thinking you’ll be a billionaire one day, cool I guess but to me its a minor example of how egregiously selfish and ugly you have to be in order to accumulate a B, that you arent generous enough for ur BEST friend to fly in first class with you
men’s idea of love is so sick and twisted. tf you mean “falling in love” with a girl at first sight with a whole girlfriend and new born baby at home??? “falling in love” with a girl at first sight but stayed cheating on her by going back and sleeping w your baby mama??
When a man has no desire to change, he’ll go looking for a woman who’s willing to accept the version of him that refuses to grow. That’s why he’ll walk away from a woman with standards, boundaries, and self-respect. Holding him accountable feels like pressure because he was never planning to do better in the first place. So don’t question your worth when he leaves. You weren’t asking for too much you were asking the wrong man. A woman who knows her value will always be too much for a man who’s committed to staying the same.