Nobody is saying you can’t cut ppl off and you must forgive ppl. Or that ppl shouldn’t take accountability. But some of yall are so nasty you fall out with someone, they apologize and leave you alone and you still talking shit about them. You got to make other ppl hate them too
u were likely not the problem, u were just the first one on their hit list lol. friend groups like these are highly volatile and once they kick out the "odd one," the countdown for the next victim begins. the math is always mathing and the drama is always dramaing
i can guarantee you that there was absolutely zero communication on this person "crossing boundaries" bc friends that suddenly decide to remove you out of nowhere dont fucking inform u when u make a mistake. rather they let ur mistakes build up and shit talk until they can gut u
it’s not talked about enough how friend breakups, watching your friend group turn on you, ostracize you and stay silent while you’re shit on and treated like a creepy stalker to the point you wanna kill yourself really fucks with your head. no one got it when it happened to me
they'll do this when one person in the group has one sided beef with you and then they'll exacerbate every single one of your flaws and build everything up and up until an irredeemable version of you exists in their head. You likely made a small, easily fixable mistake ->