yo from the bottom of my heart
if a sub gives you hints about his weaknesses maybe just indulge in them if it’s within your practices and limits instead of demanding a send
just saw a girl missing a 1k+ on my tl (known community mini whale) bc she didn’t get his mind.
sometimes “send again” just won’t do it. not every sub is exclusively a finsub, but they will still send bands.
maybe she only dominates finsubs though, who knows.
food for thought.
Never realized how much mental illness goes into findom. Figured out why I have no impulse control and now I’m just sad. This is for the mentally ill and it took thousands to before figuring that out..
Sad part is I could get a gf, but Findom just seems easier. At least you don’t have to worry about a findomme acting fake. No different than a relationship getting used either way 🤷🏼♂️