Miss Bella

Female supremacy is a natural order. I like good boys, locked boys, generous boys… preferably all three🔑
Verified via the links below. Approach after tribute.

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

I’ve built a quiet little world where good boys stay locked, denied, and completely focused on a true Goddess.

You’re welcome to join and obey completely: https://t.co/IG0kbaC3oW 🧎‍♂️

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

Why are we inventing voice-controlled furniture when men already exist?

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

@Chris694me Well, for a well-trained sub, that shouldn't be too difficult.

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

I could get used to having furniture that says “yes Goddess.”

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

@lostxboy_shadow You're a quick learner!

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

@IG22_Era @brattydeviless More? ;) Sounds brave, Ivan

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

@J_hornylife69 There is never too much useful furniture ;)

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

@NewSub715 You know the key word for how to be lucky

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

bad angle for your self control

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

My favorite is when a man enters my DMs with “I want to submit to you, Goddess 🥺” and five minutes later he's giving me a whole fucking checklist 😂

Say my name, hold up three fingers, record a new video...

Anything else, princess? Should I bark and do a backflip too?

My verified links are right there. Use your eyes, darling.

[Lola ✨Findomme @LolaLaLaLaLolaa]

Can we talk about verification videos 🙄

SUBS: THIS IS WHY DOMMES HATE WHEN YOU ASK FOR VERIFICATION VIDEOS.

1) we probably have some form of a verification video already on our socials.

2) we have links. If one of those links is LF, OF, or Fansly, they check our id and take a live scan of our face to make sure they match. We can’t make one unless they match.

3) YOU subs are putting YOUR responsibility on us, the dommes. It is YOUR responsibility to look through socials, look at links, see if everything matches up, see if there’s already verification up. And we get annoyed when YOU think just because you have money, you are ENTITLED to a fresh verification upon your demand. NO. That’s your responsibility to vet. If you got scammed before then you allowed your gooned out dick brain to think before sending. That’s not my fault, that’s yours.

5) you’re topping from the bottom. First thing in and you’re making demands that we have to acquiesce before you submit to us. The fuck? Fuck out of here. You’re the sub. You approached me. I don’t owe you anything.

6) 95% of us are the person in the pictures. Of course there are scammers, AI, and catfishes - ON BOTH SIDES. But regardless, you chose that particular domme for a reason. You liked how they look and their personality. If the vibe is good, play ball. If you get a weird vibe, then dip. But making demands first thing as a sub is a good way to get you ignored.

7) but what’s the big deal goddess, it’ll take two seconds 🥴 it’s not a big deal. In fact I just sent two videos of myself to my best friend while you were making demands. It’s the lack of respect, the lack of responsibility YOU are taking, and topping from the bottom.

Grow up. Be a responsible sub. Stop putting your shit on a domme.

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

@ElloiseGraceee Exactly! 💜

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

I'm so fucking tired of the BDSM morality police and their weekly lectures on what a "real Domme" should be.

It's the same sermon on my timeline every week. Anyway, here are a few things that will probably piss some people off:

1. Consent and communication are the bare minimum, not some incredible achievement you deserve a medal for. Congratulations on respecting boundaries. Do you want a cookie?
Of course education and consent matter. But do we really need another lecture about how responsible and educated a "real Domme" should be? Do we get certificates now?

2. "The submissive controls the scope."
He controls what he agrees to. I control what I agree to. We BOTH have limits, desires and the right to walk away. I have my own desires too, darling. That's kind of the point.
Oh, and.. A LOT of subs don't even know their own limits. I ask men about their limits all the time, and you know what I get? "I'm not sure." Or my personal favorite, "I have no limits, Goddess." Some men have never seriously thought about their boundaries, and some avoid telling you it cause the whole fantasy is having a woman make those decisions for them.

And since we're so obsessed with educating Dommes, can we start giving submissive men the same fucking lectures?
Where are the weekly lectures about THEIR responsibilities? About emotional maturity, selfcontrol, learning their own limits, communicating clearly and taking responsibility for their decisions? If the submissive controls the scope, shouldn't he also take some responsibility for understanding it?

3. And why are we acting like the submissive has no agency here? Like.. He's sitting at home with his phone. He can say no, close the chat, block me or leave. He can also use his words and tell me when something bothers him. But we all know how many men struggle with that part.

4. Women already spend enough of their lives being told to be nice, patient, understanding and responsible for everyone else's feelings.
And then we enter FEMDOM, and we're supposed to follow another set of rules about how caring and emotionally available a woman should be, wtf?

If you love being a nurturing Domme, wonderful! Find a man who wants that. But why the fuck should every other woman have to behave the same way?

5. BDSM is still about HUMAN relationships.
People get attached, jealous, misunderstand each other, make stupid decisions, lie, disappoint each other. People bring their personalities, insecurities, past experiences and emotional baggage into bdsm.
A safeword and a conversation about limits don't magically turn two imperfect adults into perfect human beings. Sometimes two people just aren't right for each other cause relationships are messy and unpredictable, with or without BDSM. Not every unpleasant experience makes someone an abuser. Shocking, I know.

As a domme, you may have your own rules and do whatever works for you. You can be a good person without making it your entire fucking personality.
And you can be a damn good Domme without being everyone's idea of a nice woman ♡

[Valet Parker @702ValetParker]

Nothing says "I don't understand BDSM" like TikTok femdoms preaching abuse as empowerment. Domination without education, consent, or nuance isn't edgy, it's dangerous. Also, a basic reminder, power exchange isn't about who barks the loudest. The submissive controls the scope. Always.

[paywallmen.com @ICONOCLASTIAE]

All dick is free. Every woman on this platform has multiple unsolicited dicks in her DMs. Any woman in any city could walk out into the street, yell “free sex,” and find some man willing to throw dick at her. No woman who wants dick has ever had to work for it. This isn’t even debatable. Dick is abundant and low value.

[m ˙⋆✮ @spoilmilaa]

i saw this on pinterest and laughed bc this is deadass every excuse ever

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

Asking a real domme for a custom verification video while happily interacting with AI dommes who occasionally grow a sixth finger is such a specific kind of men's logic.

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

@trytodresscute Admitting fault and apologizing is a rare thing nowadays, especially in the internet. You surprised me with that, it's accepted. Though I have to admit, “a husbandless life” was never quite the punishment you thought it was 😂 Take care.

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

If your bio says “NO FINDOM. NO MONEY REQUESTS. BLOCKED!!!”
relax. Nobody was fighting for access to your DM anyway.

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

@IG22_Era You promised to stay in chastity. So keep resisting ;)

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

long legs vs your self control

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

@youngpredator31 Predictable 😏

[Miss Bella @BDevilessNotes]

@Dev123Jan can't blame you ;)