Whatever one thinks about the Cornell or Lindsey Clancy cases, I think we can all agree it's a great development that our increasingly illiterate, paranoid, and phone addicted society is now litigating wrenching, painful situations via algorithms
@Clgirl25@MeghanEMurphy I just can never say this to them because they would be really offended, if not vindictive.
I forget where I heard this, but I have found it to be true: most straight women fundamentally want men to be benevolent tyrants.
@Clgirl25@MeghanEMurphy One of the big revelations for me in my mid-twenties was that a lot of the difficulty that I had with women was because I treated them as sexual equals. I now have a very patronizing approach to all of my relationships with women, and most women in my life think I walk on water.
@bloopette_@aidannonx You are a 19 year old Zoomer. Stop being a pick-me and defending doxxing.
Annoy a boy into taking you to get a matcha latte or whatever normal girls do your age.
@DaBullStandard@amyfromatown@tbonier Yeah, it is crazy. My experience about people that are very vocal about the standard never practice it. Do they not understand the standard? Are they just not self-aware?
@tbonier@thingsaintrght@amyfromatown@DaBullStandard Again, Tom, if we were to investigate your sex life, Iβd bet my life savings that I could find dozens, if not hundreds, of times you failed the above standard.
@thingsaintrght@tbonier@amyfromatown@DaBullStandard I think that you think I am making a pro-rape case, but I am not.
I am saying that most regular sex is messy and people are not aware of how many assumptions they make. My girlfriend grabbed my butt the other day. I told her no and she stopped. This is normal human interaction.
@amyfromatown@tbonier@DaBullStandard Amy, I am sorry that that happened to you. I am saying that sex is messy and I think that you are seeing me as your rapist. Genuinely, sending you good energy.
@stvvigs@amyfromatown@tbonier@DaBullStandard What about between positions? Did you take time to make sure those yeses weren't coerced? What about the times after? Did you always get explicit verbal consent for *every single stage* with that person?
@amyfromatown@tbonier@DaBullStandard Did you check in with your partner at every stage of your first time? Did you get explicit, enthusiastic verbal consent for every step?
I'm guessing that you fumbled through it like the rest of us.
@Juli17eleail There is no reason for this other than petty vindictiveness. Just because there is a social media firestorm doesn't mean that her privacy should be violated.