Ages 25โ30 are really tough. Youโre dealing with a shrinking friend group,aging parents,fixing the financial mistakes from ur early 20s,your career and your health. Youโve gotta find time to heal your mind. You just have to.
Once you realize as a man you ainโt gotta explain a thingโฆ let people create narratives, and once you learn that 1 person is too small to focus solely onโฆ life becomes easy. It takes about 30 years of age to realize this. Ignore the world and get to the bag. Drama is a distraction.
You need to be slowmaxxing. You need to be reading long, fat books. You need to be making 48-hour chocolate chip cookies. You need to spend hours watching wildlife, you need to spend 15+ min making your coffee. You need to breathe in and breathe out. You need to be slowwwwwwwwww.
he tryna ignore how the days fade into one another
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idk if this is toxic or actually practical but iโve learned to be very careful with the extent that you allow yourself to be entangled in the lives of others so that you always have a clean exit available