Cutting off family or friends who gossiped about you during the hardest season of your life isn't cruel, what they did was.
When your life was falling apart, they didn't check on you. They checked with everyone else.
They judged your worst moments, repeated your private struggles, and formed opinions without ever asking for your side.
Some people don't protect you when you're vulnerable. They protect their entertainment.
The moment your pain became a story instead of something they cared about, they showed you exactly where you stood.
The hardest truth is that betrayal hurts more when it comes from the people who should have had your back. Sometimes the kindest thing you can do for yourself is close the door and never apologize for protecting your peace.
You gotta carry yourself in a way that people don't even feel comfortable approaching you with bullshit. Make your standards clear without saying a word.
@MasculinePeak Younger women are more feminine, loving, and fun to be around.
Older women are just boring and carry a lot of past trauma.
They also have this urgency to get married really fast, so it sucks.
@yimikaaaa But self awareness is a journey tho
While you think you are , you are yet to discover more sides of you 🌚
And there are some ppl gifted to see your patterns more clearly than you do
I don’t think women realize that as men, we are hard-wired to give you the world. Our greatest innate desire is to take care of you. Just give us peace and in exchange we’ll give you everything.