It isn't about picking the right technology to solve a problem. The first step is always about identifying the right problem and having the willingness to address it.
It is not the technology alone that will make you better at what you do.
@BillieBook It's a personality thing; in Personality Hacker terms, Fe (extroverted feeling) vs. Fi (introverted feeling). The former makes you more susceptible to group think and shame for your opinions, and less likely to understand or even notice your own emotions.
@manisha72617183 I've been trying to teach my daughter something similar: Before pointing out what's wrong with someone's statement, stop and think about how they might be right.
@nixcraft Malbolge, hands down. Arguably unusable by mortal humans.
Among those I've used heavily, C++ has the most sharp corners, but Haskell was the hardest to wrap my brain around.