there's nothing more embarrassing than looking back at a relationship with someone and seeing all the ways you settled. all the times you begged for attention, a text back, a phone call, a date, reassurance. all of those things should be a given.
Communicating with someone who possesses a victim mindset can be draining. They will always blame external factors for their struggles rather than take any responsibility for change. Resentment is their default, and they crave the chance to point fingers when they’re unhappy.
Once you decide you want a good life. The Universe will start moving things for you to have it. The people you need will appear, the healing you need will happen, the doors you need open will unlock. But not till you decide. Once you truly, sincerely decide, miracles will happen.