Having a genuine heart nowadays teach you real quick that everybody don't move with the same loyalty you do. I be solid because that's who I am, not because I'm expecting something back. But after seeing how easy people switch up, I stopped giving everybody the same access to me. I'm still genuine, I just pay closer attention to who actually deserves it
Dating in this generation is like: "Prove yourself while i heal from my ex. I can't commit, but I'll act like we're together until you bring it up, then I'll remind you I'm not emotionally available."