my unpopular opinion is that if yk your wedding party is going to look like this, don’t do trad. you don’t rlly like yourself much anyways so what’s the point 😭
unlearn shame. all forms of shame: unemployment, illness, vulnerability, longing, desire, errors, failures. you do not need to feel ashamed of what you are experiencing or living. freedom and shame cannot coexist.
the most annoying type of bitch you know will make you feel bad for missing ariana grande having presence and looking confident + healthy on stage….. NOBODY is asking for her to be depressed and crying… yall are dumb as hell